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what
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why
don't you call it mpd, did, or schizophrenia? |
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does
medication work on multiples? |
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is it possible to know you are multiple without ever having
been diagnosed by a professional? |
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all
multiplicity is merely denial of memories. |
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everybody
has different sides to their personality, and you are merely mistaking them
for people. |
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isn't
multiplicity just self-trancing or self-hypnosis? |
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aren't all the people in a system only parts of a whole person?
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each
person in a multiple system expresses one single emotion -- they are cardboard characters, not complex people
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you
have to have a gifted imagination and a high intelligence level
to be multiple. |
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the
"personalities" are really demons (Christian view)
or earthbound spirits (Spiritualist/New Age view) which need
to be exorcised |
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don't
doctors just convince lonely, depressed women that they have
this condition so their life will seem to have value? |
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why
are you telling me about this? |
what
is multiplicity? |
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Multiplicity is a state in which many people share one physical
body. Being multiple means that one exists as part of a group of
people, with all the benefits and drawbacks and chances for talents or
interesting natures that any other group of people would have.
It is not automatically a disorder, and it is not automatically
something which must be changed in order to promote mental or physical
health. It is not automatic godhood, proof of genius status, or even
proof of severe sexual trauma.
why
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MPD is short for "multiple personality disorder". DID is short for
"dissociative identity disorder". Both of these not only rely on the word
disorder, but DID also implies that there is only one person who has
a delusion that there are others. Interestingly enough, DID
is a diagnosis used only in the United States.
Schizophrenia is a biochemical condition (actually several similar
conditions) which causes thought disorders. It can be treated by
medication, and in some cases by psychotherapy and changes in diet.
Although the name comes from the Greek words for "split personality",
it is not the same as being multiple.
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No, in that medication cannot be used to cure (eliminate)
multiplicity. Currently (2002) many doctors give antipsychotic
medication to people who report being multiple, or have experiences
(e.g., hearing subjective voices) that might indicate they are
multiple. Medication is supposed to suppress the experiences,
so that the patient can work on what the clinician considers real
life issues.
Many drugs prescribed to treat mental conditions not only do not work,
but make things worse for a multiple group either by making the body -
- or one person -- sick, or (most often) hindering communication. Dr.
David Caul, the psychiatrist who worked with Billy Milligan, reported
that neuroleptics such as Thorazine should not be given to multiples
because they can destroy the communication system and cause
uncontrolled switching (changes between frontrunners).
You will often hear a popular concept that "medication doesn't
work on multiples." This refers to the fact that different persons in
a multiple group may react very differently to the same medication.
It's not uncommon for even simple painkillers or antibiotics to work
fine for one person in the system, but not for another. This can make
diagnosis and treatment difficult, because the person who is ill
must be found, and made to occupy the body enough for the
medication to work on them.
Not all plurals experience this sort of division of physical
symptoms, though. A lot of times, the body has an illness or
condition such as an allergy, and whoever is out front -- occupying
the body -- has to deal with it. Some people may come up front when
the body has certain illnesses because they're more adept at handling
said illness. In this case, medication usually works fine no matter who takes it.
is
it possible to know or discover that you are multiple without
ever having been diagnosed by a professional? |
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Yes. Many people report that they knew of each other all along, or
became aware at some point in their lives that there were others sharing
their body with them. These self-recognized multiples are often shy of
disclosing, because of popular preconceived notions about multiplicity.
A professional diagnosis is not a stamp of approval. It does not guarantee
anything, and the lack of it doesn't mean anything either.
MYTH:
all multiplicity is merely denial of memories. |
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Based on Cornelia Wilbur's theory that multiplicity originates when a
single person, most often a child, suffers grievous harm and is forced to
split his or her mind into many parts to hold traumatic memory, this idea
holds about as much water as an old sock.
Wilbur invented the myth that just passing a memory around will heal
everything and allow the shattered pieces to reform into a single whole
person. While there are a very few multiples who report this as being true
for them, anecdotal evidence seems to indicate it doesn't work in general.
People in multiple systems can experience memories, accept that something
happened to them, and still feel in clear possession of self-identity, just
as a single person can.
When you remember something you haven't thought of for a long time, do you
stop being who you are? No, and it's the same for multiples. Forget what
you've seen on television: retrieving a memory doesn't always overturn a
person's sense of self.
MYTH:
everybody has different sides to their personality and you are merely mistaking them for people. |
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People in multiple systems also have different aspects to their
personalities. They're as complex as anyone else. That doesn't mean that
each person in the system is merely an aspect of a "main," "whole" or
"real" person. This is not just about behaving differently when you're with
your kids than when you're at work -- even if your different facets have
names.
MYTH:
isn't multiplicity just self-trancing or self-hypnosis? |
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No. Plurality is not a result of putting yourself into light or heavy
hypnosis to convince yourself you're someone else. This idea got a lot of
press in the 80s, most of it from doctors who followed the precepts of
Milton H. Erickson, who used hypnosis and mild mind control techniques as a
therapeutic tool. The hypnosis theory does not explain things such as co-
running, co-presence, and very rapid "ins and outs" of people who
just stop by for a few seconds to check up on the outside world.
Some multiple groups have no one who can trance at all. Some groups have
lots of people who find trancing very easy, and some have only one or two
people who can do it at all. Additionally, non-plurals can also trance
themselves. Does this mean that they're actually multiple too?
MYTH:
aren't all the people in a system only parts of a whole person?
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Some multiple systems really do contain "fragments", people who really
are nothing more than one function or emotion. But not every multiple
system contains fragments, and systems in general seem to consist of full
people with a full set of emotions. They have certain temperaments just as
single people do.
While every mind may start off fuzzy and unformed, this is the case with little
babies as much as it is with people who show up later. And, just like anyone in
the world, people in a multiple system grow and become more complex. They become
as complete as people who are walking around outside. They have their own
preferences and ideas on things. They are people. They're just like you.
There is no serious reason to believe that people inside a system are any
different than people outside it.
MYTH:
each person in a multiple system expresses one single emotion -- they are cardboard characters, not complex people.
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People in multiple systems usually aren't just embodiments of
compartmentalized emotions -- the "angry self", the "frightened self", and
so on. This concept came from the days when mental health professionals
believed that plurality came about when one mind split itself into many
compartmentalized segments, to hold records of events too traumatic to be
entrusted to the everyday memory. Many doctors wanted to believe that the
people they encountered, rather than being complex individuals, were
stereotyped aspects of a single self. Some accounts describe the persons in
their care as "cardboard characters", without depth. Probably desperate for
help with their real problems, the plurals in their care very likely gave
the doctors what they wanted to see.
MYTH:
you have to have a gifted imagination and a high intelligence
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No one knows where this jabberwocky about giftedness got started. Possibly as
early as the 1850s, when spiritualism was popular. Mediums attempted to consult
spirits of the dead to comfort and assist the living. Some mediums had very
artistic lifestyles and shared beautiful poetry and music, some of which they
said they were relaying from beyond. Some mediums, particularly those who let
helpful spirits "move in" and live with them for years, might appear to be
plural systems, or at least medians, to a modern observer. In fact, this is the
original meaning of the term "multiple personality" (no "disorder"). Some
mediums were probably plurals using the language of spiritualism to describe
their experiences. Psychiatrists such as Theodore Flournoy (From India to
Mars, 1900) assumed that spirit contact was impossible, so the mediums must
be creative, imaginative people who were making it all up -- possibly because
they were mostly women, prevented by societal factors from realizing their
ambitions.
You can find out more about the role of spiritualism in women's rights by
reading Radical Spirits by Ann Braude.
Frontrunning people in plural groups often exhibit a wide variety of interests
and activities. Believing that all multiples begin as one person who splits
their single mind into many parts, professionals who worked with multiples
assumed that the original minds of these people must have contained all of these
diverse talents -- and obviously, to have so many, they must have been born as
immeasurable geniuses. Cornelia Wilbur propagated this myth -- although Dr.
David Caul said only that he observed multiples in his care to be very
perceptive and aware of changes in their surroundings. After the publication of
D. Scott Rogo's popular book Infinite Boundary which introduced the ideas
of Dr. Ralph Allison, the myth was carved in stone. A whole race of da Vincis in fortyish female bodies were
supposed to be turning up in doctors' offices across the country. All the
shrinks imagined they had to do was smush those pesky parts together and their
patients would go on to solve the energy crisis, stop war and put an end to
global warming. Intoxicating stuff for any Psy.D.!
Never mind the fact that the three most famous multiples reported
losing most of their linguistic and artistic gifts when
integrated...
MYTH:
the "personalities" are really demons (Christian view)
or earthbound spirits (Spiritualist/New Age view) which need
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Many religions hold different ideas about multiplicity. Some traditional societies regard
it as a sacred lifepath, enabling communication with spirits in the afterlife. Some
Southwestern Indian people believe it's important for leaders and holy people to have
many "spirits inside them" and to meditate in order to find and embody such spirits. The
Catholic Church has very strict criteria for determining if a person is possessed by
demons, and according to their guidelines, multiple personality is not possession.
In other words, multiplicity is controversial, and in western society with its one-soul-per-body
model, so unnerving that it's apt to generate extreme reaction. It may be
the hardest thing you've ever done, but if you feel that your multiple friend is possessed
by demons or inhabited by discarnates, your best action might be to leave them alone about
it.
Some people who are hosting many spirits and do not want to may benefit from a
soul
retrieval or exorcism of some sort, although perhaps not a Christian one.
But too many multiples -- especially children -- have been subjected to
exorcisms and lengthy prayer sessions in an effort to drive out supposed demons
that are doing no harm. (If you think that having many persons in one body is
intrinsically harmful, you need to broaden your mind.)
MYTH:
don't doctors just convince lonely, depressed women that they
have this condition so their life will seem to have value?
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The scandals created by Dr. Bennett Braun, Elizabeth Humenansky and
others unfortunately bear this out to some extent. Determined to see
plurality everywhere, they also recreated it in their own image. Their
behaviour was outrageously unprofessional and has created a huge
amount of urban legends. They have damaged the public view of
plurality so badly that healthy multiples dare not come out to
friends, co-workers or even family. Doubtless some of the women in
their care actually were multiple, and very likely most were not.
MYTH:
why are you telling me about this?
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Because we want to stop living a lie. Because we want to stop letting our
friends believe in a lie when we have the choice to do otherwise. Because we
want to be your friends and talk to you as our individual selves, not cram
everyone into some single identity through which to interact with you. Because
we don't like lying to our friends. Because we trusted you. Because we loved
you. Because we thought you might do the same for us.
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